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Let the ghosts go

It's nowhere near Halloween but I'm thinking about ghost people and setting them free to the wind. Ghost people may have seemed like friends at some point in time but in reality never had the proper mechanisms inside them to be your friends. They were either motivated by one thing or another but that motivation was never love, kindness or authenticity. It was a good time or nothing for them. There's a reason why the term "fair weather friend" was coined.
So whether you kicked them to the curb or they "ghosted" on you AGAIN (because thats all they know to do, cowardly pitiful things) it's a good time to just let them fly off and not let them in your house again. MARCH is for marching forward. Im not only thinking of my own ghost people but seeing how people keep a beef going on Facebook long after the fact. Let it go. Life is wasted on that stuff.
Im having a recharge weekend connecting with a lot of things and celebrating all the kind friends who offered supportive words to me last week. In the end you can't focus on the ghosts but on the sunbeam people who got your back no matter what. And no animosity towards ghosts- they aren't real things of substance anyway.
Put energy where it deserves to be put. ❤
Ok I have many paper leaves to cut and assemble for a work project... and my bass guitar wants some love... and I'm on the last chapter of my book...
Happy Sunday- direct your energy accordingly ❤

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